Apr
15

Join me in supporting wounded veterans

By Kelsey

Running for Team RWB

Odysseus Runs for Team Red, White, and Blue

Donate here to support our wounded veterans

Leaving your family isn’t easy. I leave mine for a month or two at time. That’s a tough goodbye. Each time I’m faced with it, I think about the men and women of our military. They are gone for much longer and traveling to lands far less welcoming.

Returning home is always sweet. I return with my hair a bit longer, a few pounds missing, and some great stories. Annie usually cuts my hair within a few days, a couple weeks eating dessert puts the weight back on, and I stew over the stories making them readable. It takes next to no time for me to be back to normal.

But that’s not always the case for our soldiers.

They said goodbye. They went to war. Some of them returned injured or traumatized.  Reintegrating into society can be a challenge.

I don’t think about the sacrifices soldiers make and their struggle to adjust to being home nearly enough.

Do you?

Well, here’s a chance for both of us to show our support.

I’m participating in the American Odyssey — a relay run from Gettysburg to D.C. — with Team Red, White, and Blue and could use your support. Here’s what Team RWB is about and why we chose our team name:

We named our team Team Odysseus Runs for TRWB because we think there is a strong metaphoric relationship with Team RWB veterans, and its mission.

Team Red, White & Blue’s vision is to transform the way wounded veterans are reintegrated into society when they return from combat and exit their position in the Active Duty force, Reserve or National Guard
and the symbolic importance of their journey. Just as Odysseus, the legendary Greek King of Ithaca and the hero of Homer’s epic poem The Odyssey — infamous for tricking the Trojan’s by hiding in the Trojan horse, encountered numerous obstacles and trials – he is ever hopeful that he will return home to his wife and son.

At Team Red, White & Blue we feel it’s our time – our turn – to give back to these heroic Americans who have risked so much and may have a long journey ahead of them. We propose a different kind of veteran support, one that is rooted in a deep understanding and willingness to listen to veterans and their families, and aid in their reintegration into the society they fought so honorably to defend and protect. Our special community of athletes advocates and supporters (corporate, non-profit and individual) are all committed to serving those who have served our great nation. Together with wounded veterans and their families and friends, we will develop meaningful, one-on-one relationships that will have lasting meaning and impact.

The Goals

My Goal: To not get lost. To not get abducted or molested or abducted and molested by civil war ghosts somewhere in the woods outside Gettysburg at 3 A.M.

Our Goal: My buddy Larry created this page on First Giving to raise money for Team RWB.

The Reward: When we raise over $500, I will post a photo of me sitting on my throne in my front yard. Here’s my throne…

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Jan
31

Freedom from the Little Princes!

By Kelsey

Thanks to all who helped take one of the suggested actions in support of “Little Princes” by Conor Grennan and to “free” my blog.

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Cool people on “Little Princes,” Nepal and Conor

Isabelle’s What to Read Next blog – she was invited to an event by Conor’s publisher and met him

Joanne Brokaw encourages us to be like Conor and show up.

Joe Simpson’s amazing Nepal photo album on Facebook

Karen Duffy’s review in the Dayton Beach News-Journal:”"Little Princes” is a tale of determination, courage and love that will not leave you unchanged.

Now back to your regular scheduled blogging.

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Jan
25

“Little Princes” on the Nate Berkus show

By Kelsey

Visit Conor’s blog to get his behind the scenes take on his appearance.

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Jan
20

Ask your librarian to get “Little Princes”

By Kelsey

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Dear Harriette,

I wanted to tell you about a book that I would love to see the library have – “Little Princes: One Man’s Promise to Bring Home the Lost Children of Nepal” by Conor Grennan. I hope it’s the next “Three Cups of Tea.” I’ve followed Conor’s blog for years now. Basically, he was traveling around the world and decided to volunteer at an orphanage in Nepal. When be realized many of the children were victims of human trafficking, he decided to do something about it.

If you’re cool like me, you are on a first name basis with your local librarian and have her email address. I shot the above email to Harriette this morning. It’s another great way to spread the word about “Little Princes.” If you do so, report back and will count it as one of the 100 things that need to be done to rescue my blog from the Little Princes.

Also, GIVE ME LIBRARIES!

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Jan
19

The Little Princes are holding my blog hostage

By Kelsey

little princesI’m not sure I’ve ever been more excited about a book than Conor Grennan’s Little Princes, which comes out next week. I want to support it in every possible way I can and I hope you’ll help me.

Conor went to Nepal to volunteer at an orphanage. When he learned that many of the kids were trafficked, he decided to do something about it. He setup Next Generation Nepal that sought to reconnect trafficked children with their parents.

I’ve been following Conor’s blog, Conor’s Mildly Thrilling Tales, for years. We were both part of the BootsnAll blogging network when I stumbled upon him. Conor’s writing is hilarious and powerful, self-deprecating and witty. My only complaint is that he doesn’t update his blog enough. I’m not sure he’ll remember this, but a while back I sent him a note saying, “Dude you should write a book.” Well, he did.

And now I want everyone I know to do everything they can to support Conor, Little Princes, and Next Generation Nepal.

Here’s Conor on writing Little Princes

But in writing it, I realized it was more than just their story. It was the story of how somebody like me, somebody with no relevant skills whatsoever, no deep passion for volunteering, no profound desire to make an impact on anyone’s life but his own, found himself sacrificing his comfortable way of life to try to improve the lives of these young children on the other side of the world.

That became perhaps the most important element in the story for me. I am desperate for readers, especially younger readers, to see what getting involved can do. How it can change your life so completely, and in ways you could never imagine. How volunteering, whether it is in an impoverished third world nation or in your hometown, requires only that you show up. Don’t worry how little of your time or resources you may have to offer—just offer it, and see what happens.

The fact is, volunteering is no longer a fringe activity—the world gets smaller every day and we have a responsibility to understand what it looks like. It’s not how the other half lives, it’s how the other 90% live. And I believe that each of us has a responsibility to know what those lives look like, even if we only give one single day of our life to discovering it. Because it could have been us.

In support of Conor, his amazing book, and his awesome work, I’m letting Little Princes hold my blog hostage until 100 people commit to one of the following:

1) Buy little Princes from Better World Books, Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Borders, your local independent bookstore, or wherever. A portion of all sales go to support Next Generation Nepal;

2) Donate to Next Generation Nepal;

3) Like Next Generation Nepal and Little Princes both on facebook and then tell all of your friends about it;

4) Blog about Next Generation Nepal.

In order for your action to count, you have to report it in the comments of this post on my blog or on facebook. Until 100 people commit to at least one of the above, I’ll be blogging each day about nothing other than Little Princes, Conor, Nepal, and child trafficking.

This is an important book and cause. And I 100% guarantee that you’ll love Conor’s writing. Here’s a sneak peek and here’s Conor talking about Little Princes.

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Oct
26

Donate to your local NPR station

By Kelsey

I feel for Juan Williams, I really do. The dude should not have been fired, especially in the manner that he was. A phone call! They could’ve at least had Carl Kassle call him and leave a message on his voicemail.

But even more than that I feel for NPR. NPR is getting hammered in the press for being this liberal conspiracy to take over the world. (Full Disclosure: I would totally vote Tom and Ray of Car Talk into the White House. There is all of this talk of which party, the Democrats or the Republicans, drove the bus into the ditch and who is going to drive us out. Well, at least with Tom and Ray they can figure out what the hell is wrong with our bus and have a good time doing so.)

I find it more than ironic that NPR, which is largely listener supported, is being criticized for having an agenda by media outlets owned by major corporations with interests across the map. NBC, FOX, and CNN can’t scratch their butts without wondering how it is going to affect the sales of their sister company’s hemorrhoid cream.

The timing of the Juan Williams thing is like a perfect storm because many of the affiliates like the one here in Muncie are in the middle of their fall fund-raising campaign. Speaking of perfect storms, the station here in Muncie had their transponder taken out for a large portion of the day by high winds. Depending on what ridiculous position you are taking on the Williams firing, you might think that it is God’s or Allah’s will. Call me reasonable, but I think it was just a damn low-pressure system.

I love NPR. My goal in life is to be interviewed by Terry Gross. I met Garrison Keillor in an elevator, I listen regularly to On Point out of Boston and even had my call taken by the show one time, and like every writer in America I want to record a piece for This American Life and try on Ira Glass’s glasses. That’s why this Tuesday I’m donating $20 as part of my $10 for Tuesday project. Yes, I realize that the math doesn’t really work out. Get your own project. You know every time I get on a plane and see someone with a scientific calculator who looks like they have a handle on calculus, I get a little nervous.)

Kelsey and Garrison Keillor

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Oct
12

Giving $10 to 3 Cups

By Kelsey

Tonight I have the honor of speaking at the Columbus (IN) Library. The community selected Three Cups of Tea for their community reading program and since they apparently couldn’t get Greg Mortensen himself, they contacted me. I’m super pumped. I love the book and every time I read about Mortenson I’m amazed by his psycho-like dedication to his cause and all the positive change he is bringing into our world.

I’ll be talking about the Girl Effect, the importance of educating and employing women, and up and coming Greg Mortensons like Jake Harriman of NURU who I’ve had the pleasure to meet.

Here’s the official description of my chat:

Common Threads: Exploring Poverty One Story at a Time presented by Kelsey Timmerman
October 12, 7:00 pm, Bartholomew County Public Library, Red Room

Kelsey Timmerman, author of “Where Am I Wearing? A Global Tour to the Countries, Factories and People That Make Our Clothes,” has traveled extensively in the developing world. In Bangladesh he saw how extending micro-credit to women changes lives. In Kenya he met a former US Special Forces soldier fighting terrorism by fighting extreme poverty. Kelsey will share stories about people that he’s met on his travels as he touches on the themes of extreme poverty and the importance of educating girls that Mortenson writes about in “Three Cups of Tea.” He will also introduce dedicated individuals who, like Mortenson, are impacting the world in very big ways and discuss how each of us can impact it as well. Kelsey believes that if we reduce global issues to the stories of individual people, we can better see ourselves, our parents, our sons and daughters, and our hopes and struggles in one another.

In honor of Mortenson’s amazing book, I’m giving my $10 this Tuesday to his organization the Central Asia Institute.

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Sep
7

What’s the cause of your life?

By Kelsey

We learn an awful lot about a person reading about their death.

I appreciate a good obituary; one that speaks to a life lived. Unfortunately many of us don’t have the luxury of being eulogized in inch after inch of newspaper type by someone who can adequately navigate the arc of our life. So our families are left with the task.

Usually, it’s a very utilitarian thing, here’s who died, here’s who they were close to (if you know them you should attend), and here’s the where and when. It’s not until the end we learn the most about them.

“Memorial contributions may be made to…”

Sometimes this is where we find what killed the person, which is a shame (unless what causes their death was their cause). But when done right this is where we see how a life was spent as opposed to how it was taken.

This past week the Midwest Writer’s Conference and the Selma/Muncie (IN) community in general lost a great champion, Alan Garinger. We’d all be lucky to have an obituary as all encompassing as Alan’s, as we’d all be lucky to live a life in which we follow our passions and give of ourselves like Alan did.

Among many things, Alan was an author of middle-grade fiction and a teacher.

It’s no surprise that the cause of Alan’s life is represented at the end of his obituary:

“Memorial contributions may be made to the Friends Preschool of Friends Memorial Church, 418 w. Adams St., Muncie, IN 47305.”

So this Tuesday of the $10 for Tuesday Project I’m giving my 10 bucks to Alan’s cause. I’m also taking a moment to ponder the cause of my life. What would yours be?

And there is no greater way to honor an author than to read his work in which he’ll live on forever. So if you know a middle-grader that likes to read, check out Alan’s latest.

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Aug
24

The $10 for Tuesday Project: “Letting my babies down”

By Kelsey

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My “Free Money” post, part of my $10 for Tuesday Project, has received over 60 comments. Everything from “Give me $10 or I’ll kill you” to, more often, tales that are a sign of these tough times.

It’s become much more of a responsibility than I ever imagined. To think someone was so desperate that they Googled “free money” and took the time to comment or email me their story hoping they might get a measly $10 breaks my heart. I always try to respond.

I received this note a while back:

My name is Michelle I am a 32 yr old single mom of 2. A 12 yr old lil girl and my 7yr old son Kevin who was diagnosed with a rare aggressive form of cancer called Rhabdomyopsarcoma. On June 19,2010 he is getting chemo and radiation. I am trying to raise 1500.00 to get a vehicle and my license so I can get him to his doctors appointments in Atlanta, Ga which is nearly 4 hours from our home in Valdosta, GA. We have to be in Atlanta twice a week and sometimes more. I am a waitress and it’s very hard to juggle all of this. I feel like I’m letting my babies down. But I’m trying. I would greatly appreciate it if you would please ask your family and church and anyone else you can think of to please pray for my Bo. His name is Kevin. Bo is his nickname. Thank you

“I’m letting my babies down.” That sentence levels me.

It’s not always easy to vet the stories to see if they are genuine. But after doing some digging and exchanging a few emails with Michelle I have no reason to believe that she isn’t telling the horrible truth.

This week I’m mailing my $10 to Michelle so she can help take care of her babies. I know that $10 won’t make that much of a difference, but more than anything I want her to know that there is someone out there that hears her. I would be honored if you joined me.

Email me at Kelsey@kelseytimmerman.com and I’ll send you her address.

(This is my second $10 for Tuesday today because I missed last week)

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Aug
24

The Poor Give More than the Rich

By Kelsey

If you had more, you would give less.

Americans earning less than $25,000 give away 4.2% of their income on average and those earning $75,000+ give away only 2.7% of theirs according to a piece by Judith Warner in the NY Times The Charitable Giving Divide.

Some of the most interesting parts of the story were Warner’s discussions with grad student, Paul Piff, about his research at UC Berkeley:

“…lower-income people were more generous, charitable, trusting and helpful to others than were those with more wealth. They were more attuned to the needs of others and more committed generally to the values of egalitarianism.

“Upper class” people, on the other hand, clung to values that “prioritized their own need.” And, he told me this week, “wealth seems to buffer people from attending to the needs of others.” Empathy and compassion appeared to be the key ingredients in the greater generosity of those with lower incomes. And these two traits proved to be in increasingly short supply as people moved up the income spectrum.

Piff found that if higher-income people were instructed to imagine themselves as lower class, they became more charitable. If they were primed by, say, watching a sympathy-eliciting video, they became more helpful to others — so much so, in fact, that the difference between their behavior and that of the low-income subjects disappeared. And fascinatingly, the inverse was true as well: when lower-income people were led to think of themselves as upper class, they actually became less altruistic.

Another interesting quote in the piece was from economist, Frank Levy:

“The welfare state rests on enlightened self-interest in which people can look at beneficiaries and reasonably say, ‘There but for the grace of God. . . .’ As income differences widen, this statement rings less true.”

“Runaway inequality (has led to) a pulling away of the very wealthy from the rest of American society. Do we believe the rich should be trusted to tithe, or should we have a society with a basic taxing-and-spending structure that ensures a modicum of economic security for all people?”

That last bit is the tie-in to the present day discussion on whether or not to roll back the Bush tax cuts. Personally, I’m all right with the “have’s” kicking in a little extra right now. There’s all this talk about if the wealthy have more money they’ll invest it and create jobs. That might be the case at times – and I do believe that giving someone a job gives them a dignity that no amount of charity ever could – but the folks who I know that still have money are sitting on it because the economy is still so uncertain. I don’t blame them.

Actually, I think the tie-in to the tax cuts in the piece is simply necessary to land it in the NY Times. The real story here is: More money = less empathy.

Don’t you just love humans and our short memories?

You give a poor person money and they care less. They forget the struggles they had. This is the whole “boot strap” argument. I did it by myself so you should do it by yourself.

There is no getting out of poverty by yourself or getting rich on your own. You can’t pull yourself up by the bootstraps if you don’t have any boots. At some point someone believes in you, whether it’s an employer or a client or an investor or a teacher.

The downside to financial independence is isolation. There’s more community in one apartment complex in the projects than there is in an entire development in the suburbs.

I work with a group in Muncie called Teamwork for Quality Living. They pair three middle and upper class volunteers, who are known as “allies,” with someone in the community who is trying to get out of poverty, known as “captains.” The allies don’t give the captains money, but they share their experiences, expertise, and connections in the community to help the captains reach their goals.

When the group meets as a whole, it’s hard to distinguish the captains from the allies, and, in fact, no one really tries. Two weeks ago when the group met we discussed what the allies and captains, alike, get out of the experience. Many of the allies talked about how they see the poor in a very different light now and the captains said the same thing about the wealthy.

It turns out zeroes in a bank account don’t mean as much as we think.

I guarantee that the members of Teamwork — captains and allies alike — give away much more than 4.2% of their incomes. It’s an investment that yields big returns in the form of friendship, confidence, faith in people, and empathy. And that’s something that no tax cut will ever do.

This Tuesday as part of my $10 for Tuesday project I’m giving $10 to Teamwork for Quality Living. I encourage you to find a group in your community to support with Time and/or moeny that breaks down the barriers between the have’s and have-nots and reminds us all that we’re in this mess together.

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