Africa Does Not Need More Orphanages

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Kelsey Nielsen, a 22 year old social work major at Temple University, pointed me to a post she had written about orphanages in Uganda. It kind of blew my mind in that it made me look at orphanages in developing nations in a new way. Kelsey spent 12 months in Uganda and started the Abide Family Center (feel free to donate!) alongside Megan Parker. I asked her to expand her post and write a guest post.

Patrick, a twenty year old, first time father, sits with his wife’s head in his lap. Their beautiful four month old baby boy lay sleeping next to them.   Patrick sits silently listening to every breath his wife takes as she grips his hand tight to keep from screaming out in pain.  This night spent on the cool dirt floor of their small one room home in the slums of Kampala, Uganda would strip Patrick of the two people he loved most.  That night his wife died of an undetermined illness.  Patrick worked in the quarry making just enough to pay rent and feed his family.  He had little if any extra money all. He was unable to pay for transport to the closest hospital, let alone provide medical care.

The days after her passing, Patrick was not only faced with the loss of his wife, but with the uncertainty of how he would take care of his son.  Christopher had been growing big and strong with his Mother’s love and breast milk packed with nutrients.  To keep his son he would need money for formula and for the salary of a house girl who would watch Christopher while he worked during the day.  He tried everything, but was left with few options.  Hearing of Patrick’s situation, a neighbor directed him to an American working in a slum area nearby.  The woman gladly admitted Christopher to her program.  Patrick walked away from his son that day not knowing if or when he would ever get to bring him back home again.

If Patrick, a loving father who desired so deeply to raise his own son, had been living somewhere in the developed world, there would have been an entirely different outcome.  If Patrick lived in a country with a progressive social welfare system in which the State worked to care for its most vulnerable citizens, he would have had access to programs that helped alleviate the increased economic strain that came with the death of his wife.  Patrick would have potentially had access to government programs that subsidized food and housing costs, making it easier to provide for his son.  These are not options for single-parents living in Uganda.  Often times caregivers in their most vulnerable state seek assistance for their children and more often than not assistance comes in the form of institutional care models.  Probation officers recommend OVC (orphans and other vulnerable children) to local babies’ homes and orphanages.  After placement in an institution, there is little if any work being done to reunify the child with their immediate or extended family. Most commonly, when a child enters an orphanage they are forfeiting their right to grow up in their natural family.  Family preservation models in the care of OVC are seldom implemented in the developing world, leaving at-risk families with extremely limited options.

The Dilemma: 4 out of 5 orphans have 1 or both parents living

Save the Children reports, “Lack of support to families and communities also results in large numbers of children ending up in potentially harmful institutions.  4 out of 5 of the estimated 8 million children currently living in care institutions, have one or both parents alive. With some support these parents would be able to continue to care for their child in their own home” (Family Strengthening and Support, 2010).  In this policy brief, Save the Children acknowledges that not all families are able to care for and protect their children from harm.  There are some families that even with the necessary assistance, would still fail to meet the critical developmental needs of their children. Therefore the unethical gap in care provided to OVC in the developing world I will be addressing are the services offered to at-risk caregivers by which the dominant and fundamental need is monetary.
Boy in Maranatha Orphanage, Iganga, Uganda.
The clear and upsetting gap between services for at-risk children and youth  in the U.S. and the services offered to the developing world is one that must be acknowledged and critically analyzed in order to begin providing families overseas the same level of care offered to families here.  In this paper I will question most directly why individuals from the developed world-  individuals from countries with progressive social welfare systems, why we have decided it is okay to move backward and continue offering solutions that have been found ineffective and actually damaging in our own countries. There has been a clear movement away from institutional care in the United States, with a movement toward family preservation.  However, we insist on offering the developed world this sub-par level of care that countless studies have proven damaging not only to children and families, but to entire communities and cultures.

In Philadelphia, families who DHS feels it necessary to separate are scheduled to be seen in court on multiple occasions.  Individuals present at said hearings would most likely include: a judge, a child advocate, the child(ren), parents, other family members, a case worker, and a lawyer defending the parents. These court hearings are held to make sure all parties are doing their job. The judge wants to see evidence that there is a movement toward permanency for the child. If at all possible, it is in the form of reunification with the natural family. For a child to be released back into the care of the home they were removed from, the caregiver must take the necessary steps to make their home a safe place for that child.

Anyone at DHS would tell you that as often as they are referred to as “baby snatchers”, that is not what they are about.  Not at all. The social workers, supervisors, and department heads all want to see children out of foster care and reunited with their biological family. They want to see caregivers making the necessary changes to help bring their children home. And it is in fact the case workers’ job to do everything in his or her power to make this possible. Whether it is providing transportation to NA meetings, helping the caregiver look for employment, or finding necessary mental health treatment- the caseworker serves as a broker and advocate for the caregiver.

Family preservation is at the center of the services DHS provides to their clients.  Individuals and institutions working to address the needs of at-risk children in the U.S. have studied the effects of institutional care on children. They have understood that it is a child’s right to grow up with their natural family. They have realized that it is unethical to automatically write a caregiver off as unfit regardless of how a caseworker may feel about the situation initially. They have understood that it is entirely necessary to provide a caregiver with the tools to bring their children back home. Does it always work? Absolutely not. There are many parents who don’t take advantage of the services provided to them. They do not do their part in completing the steps to make reunification possible, and in this case the caregiver’s rights would be terminated. The point is, they are to be given every opportunity to make it possible for their children to return home. It is up to the caregiver to choose whether or not they will take responsibility and work with the case worker and the courts to meet the requirements for regaining custody of their children.

In Uganda at-risk families aren’t even presented with this choice. Just imagine how the number of children living in institutional care would decrease if instead of simply placing children in orphanages, we came alongside the parents and gave them a choice. What if we focused on empowering and helping link them up with the necessary resources to keep their children? We could prevent family separation in the first place.

In some cases there is a definite need to remove a child from the home; however there is a major difference between the care provided when this occurs. One of the major differences between orphanages and foster care as temporary solutions- when children are placed in foster care in the U.S. a social worker is working with their parents to help them regain custody. In Uganda when a child enters an orphanage, the orphanage is not working with the caregiver to help improve their situation- thus the orphanage becomes more of a long-term solution for these families.

When we measure services offered to at-risk families in the U.S. against what we fund and promote in Uganda there is a disparaging gap that should upset all of us. I don’t believe in satisfactory care. I believe in researching and educating ourselves before starting NGO’s in cultures SO vastly different from our own. I believe in offering the best care possible, whether it is in North Philadelphia or East Africa. Performing needs based assessments, studying evidence based/best practice models, and determining the cultural appropriateness of potential services and aid programs is critical. Because if you are not doing this, you are committing a serious disservice to the population you are serving. And you just might be doing more harm than good

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This is heartbreaking. Thank you for your insight and this important perspective.

I first went to Zimbabwe at the age of 19 and worked at an orphanage. Fifteen years later, my heart sinks when I hear people are going “over there” to build or work at an orphanage. I am now a strong advocate for community care of vulnerable children.

When called to help children in the developing world or our young neighbor down the street, let’s first always ask ourselves: “How can we respond in ways that best support children’s immediate needs while protecting their rights in the long-term?”

We can do this by supporting local activists who, though under-recognized and under-resourced, are the true heroes and the true experts about what’s needed to help children in the developing world.

I’ve now worked with over 300 grassroots organizations in southern and east Africa in my career. Most were linked to churches, schools, or clinics, assisting children by extending services into areas that are not sufficiently reached by government or international agencies. A UNICEF-sponsored mapping exercise identified over 1,800 of these groups in Malawi alone (NOVOC, 2005).

As community-based and -focused institutions, grassroots organizations are part of the social fabric of the community in which girls and boys live and grow. This intimate position within girls’ and boys’ lives and in the community enables grassroots organizations to (1) have the legitimacy and trust to reach marginalized and isolated children with supportive and appropriate care, (2) design programs that are deemed most necessary and sensible in their locality, and (3) use their expertise to influence local support systems and institutions (e.g. families, schools, etc.) to more adequately fulfill children’s rights.

Firelight Foundation’s publication (found at: offers a guide to Western-based groups and individuals seeking to contribute resources of time or money to support vulnerable children in Africa.

In no way can orphanages or international adoptions be a lasting solution for the vast numbers of vulnerable children in the developing world. It’s time to recognize that there are long-term, traumatic consequences when children are deprived of their families and communities, and when families and communities are deprived of their children.

Thank you for your thorough input, Jennifer! It is always good to hear from people who have seen & understood the need for preventative/alternative care solutions for OVC rather than perpetuating the institutional model- which is obviously damaging and really not culturally appropriate. I am currently working with a professor at my university to complete an independent study- focusing on research in evidence based/best practice models for family & community based care for OVC in Africa. It has and continues to chance the direction and structure of Abide Family Center. We are focused on keeping Ugandans central to the project (Ugandan social workers will be doing all the casework). There is so much we lack in being American- we could never implement a successful program model if we were calling all the shots.

Kevin Raposo says:

Hi Jennifer, great read! It’s good to hear from someone who has first hand knowledge of whats going on out there. I completely support your cause!

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Bill says:

Hey the abide family center website didn’t work for me, anyway I can consider supporting this initiative?

Bill, we are so thankful you are considering supporting Abide- If the website is giving you trouble (that’s how you access the link to our PayPal tab), you could send a check by mail to: Abide Family Center, 4201 S. 35th St. Arlington, Va 22206
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Mick says:

Loved your article It is so much about US, those with the money, not doing the right funding to solve these problems.

In fact, we have made many decisions as a nation, ie capital hill, making laws that actually hurt Africa more than help. We have economically shut them down and I believe we have done it on purpose to make sure Africa is not competitive in the market.

Then when we do help we do so wrong. A great example is “Good Fortune” a documentary where Western farming is brought to Africa with disastrous results.

Keep up the good work!


Carol says:

Children grow best in families!

Carol says:

Very informative; Africa’s children belong to families

Carol Bankusha says:

The greatest resource for Africa is its children, cared for in families and communities

Vincent says:

But to whose family should they go to when there are no families? The author speaks of one family but the vast numbers of children who are left on the street because their parents have died of HIV or war or other terrible circumstances have no family. What about the children who are sold so the family can buy food or shelter or to supply a parent’s drug habit?

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kulukuma amon says:

WE started star light glory home in kasese uganda we care for orphans
we need support to pay teachers
see our facebook page on star light glory home and school

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Vincent says:

This is all fine and in a perfect world this is a great solution. (Of course in a perfect word there would be no orphanages.) But where do you propose the money to support these programs would come from? Like a lot of well-meaning social-activists, there is an overlooked detail. Funding! Okay, maybe two things. Funding and culture. What works in North Philly doesn’t even necessarily work in Detroit. Programs and policies are great and what you’re suggesting is wonderful. But who’s paying for it? How would it be administered? You didn’t mention bureaucracy, back-log, red tape regulations or staffing. And to think a system in Philly could just be transplanted to another country where the history, traditions, customs, values and culture are so different, is naïve.

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disenchanted with the hospital’s failure to guard their son and to warning them about the
range of psycho-therapy drugs administered to their son.

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Children are our future. But for many, that future is uncertain. poverty, hunger, exploitation, abuse, natural disasters and lack of opportunity at a young age are indescribably distressing. Include the loss of love, support and comfort of family life and an orphaned child is the most tragic and poignant symbol of heartbreak imaginable.

Our Orphanage Home is specially called for the upkeep of orphans, abandoned babies, motherless, abused and less privileged children. All over the street, and society, we find these groups of helpless people who need care, support a sense of belonging and a home they can call theirs. Touched and moved by the plight and feelings of these our fellow human beings hence our vision is to provide them their peculiar needs in the area of shelter, health care, education, food and clothing. Our clear objective /goal is set at erasing completely street, psychological complex, low esteem, negative moral vices homeless children from our society. Beloved, sincerely speaking we cannot succeed in this divine course without your financial and material support. Please help us to put a smile on the faces of these Orphans, less privilege children. Every act of love, care and compassion to these orphans will be greatly rewarded, remember God loves a cheerful giver, nothing is to small join us this quest and help to build a life today.

Jason Kelley says:

So what can an individual do to help? There is a clear need for infrastructure that could help communities in Africa. Should we try to improve communities by building infrastructure such as access to clean water and electricity? Help improve farming? I am really wanting to learn how to help and would like to do so in the future

Karuhura. Innocent T says:

. Am happy to hear good ideas from different corners of the world. A person like me, I bought land and now am planning to put a free orphanage clinic. The most thing to be done in Africa is to SAVE LIFE of young BABIES and PREGNANT MOTHERS on health care grounds.

Sharon says:

Africa doesn’t need any more orphanages, or western aid or vaccines or western inspired civil wars, or deadly bio-weapons or any of the crap that comes from western countries! Africa simply needs the so called “rich” and “civilised” western countries to STOP STEALING our resources and get out of Africa!! Please go away and take back your aid, killer vaccines and your evil policies to kill, steal and destroy Africa!! Its your evil polices and insatiable greed that is creating the problems of orphanages, what do you expect when you come and inject Africans with bioweapons such as AIDS, Ebola and all manner of disgusting disease? you get destroyed communities with lots of helpless and vulnerable orphans!! AFRICA NEEDS ALL EVIL AND THIEVING WESTERNERS OUT OF AFRICA.
Africa had strong and vibrant self sufficient and self sustaining communities with healthy and wealthy Africans living together in harmony, until the white man showed up on the African continent! Go away and don’t come back!!

Matt says:

Sharon, let the people who live there speak on what they need. Thanks.

Let your voice be heard!